I have always been afraid of failure. I am sure that most of us are. However, some people are much better at framing their failures than others.  The fear of failure has held me back from trying so many things, and having so many experiences.  As I approach 40, this has been one of the major hurdles in my life that I would like to get better at.  As Gretchen Rubin says, we need to find the fun in failure.…